LittleBigMama

well, i am knew, but if I made any friends here, I would allways be an email away, even if I didnt visit their page often. Unless of course, my computer crashes

Okay, so I'm new the the Aidpages community and I'm curious about something. Some of you are regular posters and keep a running blog offering advice and links to helpful sites. Being a member of a couple sites myself, I've developed quite a bond with my online friends. How many of you come here to see how other Aidmates are doing? Do you only come to post in your blog? In short, How involved in this community are you? I'm only asking because I have a tendency to become attached to people and I wonder how many others are the same way. Whenever I would make friends as a child, I would always go out of my way to help them, because I thought that what friends should do. My mother always referred to it as "picking up strays". I guess she figured I only made friends with needy people. In a way, I did, because everyone has needs, whether it's physical or emotional. So many people don't like to ask for help, but there's no shame in it. I guess that why some people have difficulty making or keeping friends; because they don't like to acknowledge another persons needs.